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Don't just see watch my dear. Don't just hear listen my dear. Believe me there is so much to learn from this large universe

 "Damirage"

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Date:22/8/2005

~Thoughts of today~

At last lazy damirage updated Mmmm before I write my topic I have something to say; recently I have been reading a lot about rape. Father in law rapes daughter in law, step father rapes step daughters, a woman raped by some tribesman its like a rape bug is going around. Then I read about a woman raped in our part of the word and when she reported the crime her husband divorced her and her mother blamed her and the rape story goes on. This issue bothered me and by coincidence Dhabyani.com talked about the issue, I was happy to have a chance to read different views and maybe we could find an answer to this social problem. So please check dhabyani.com update ok… Now to my topic

Actually I always pass through a phase where I wonder and jot down notes on what passes through my mind and today these 10 things crossed my mind and I want to share them with you. You might agree with some and disagree with others or you might agree with all or even disagree with all at the end we never cease to learn as life goes on….So the 10 things that crossed my mind today were:

Nicknames say a lot about people’s character you don't believe me check nicknames and pic in flickr and judge for yourself..

Rarely will a shared secret remain a secret anymore.

Rumours always have a base.

Most people if not all do contradict themselves.

Lots of people lack the art of communication.

However nice you are still there will always be people who won’t like you

No matter how hard we work still at the end fate takes its toll on us.

Most people never do anything for granted they always wait for something in return

We are all performers we start our role after we are born and the end is when we die…

When a person doesn’t get a long with lots of people it doesn’t always mean something is wrong with that person it could mean that something is wrong With those people.

So what do you guys agree or disagree with from the 10 points ?

Date:26/7/2005

~Just for you sis~

Yeah now we are all aunts and uncles Mabrook om Ahmed.At last naughty Ahmed arrived on mother land.... Now for those who don’t know om Ahmed she is Uaeyah visit her site to know what a great person she is. Really Iam happy for you tight hugs and kisses to you and little Ahmed wa ytraba fi 3ezkom inshallah…I didn’t know what to do for you but I made the card below especially for you I hope you like it.You know I suck in arts lol but I had to do something for the sweet new mom ....A big fat kiss for Ahmed and whisper in his ear *you are a lucky little boy to have a great mom like me* I mean it *wink*…Tackle in bed have enough rest and wish you all the best…inshallah

Date:26/6/2005

~Flickrs Back~

Yahooooo Flickr is back again I was one of those neutral people. I read the justification of those who were against banning flickr and I found it logical. Then I read the justification of those who were with the banning of flickr and I found it logic too. Honestly the issue troubled me I suffered because I wanted a right solution and after that I wouldn’t have cared whether flickr was alive and kicking here in the UAE or it was dead forever…

But before I decided what move I should take flickr was back and grooving here again and Iam happy. Now I feel come on damirage where is the solution I never found one but still Iam happy. Funny it’s because it was a relief don’t I sound wicked? No not really I think it’s just human away from any kind of responsibility.

I usually listen to different perceptions but at the end I believe as long as a human being isn’t insane he/she can differentiate what’s right from wrong. What makes me feel comfortable is I think everyone is responsible for his or her actions so with flickr or no flickr whoever wants to do anything wrong he/she will find a way to do it. (For kids’ parents should instil in them a strong conscience and when they grow up they fly away in the direction they choose)

I have to say this I didn’t like the idea of people blaming who ever reported the thing because it was his/her views and even if we are against it we still respect his/her perception and we don’t go around shooting at him/her right? Plus if we are fair we will know that he/she did it for a good cause Islam and the UAE.The good thing is still he stood against those who used flickr to destroy our Image world widely. So who we should really blame are those crazy people out there I think they have learnt a lesson…

Guys come-on the shots below aren't mine but ha I didn’t steal them *wink* actually I loved these two shots and I asked for permission to use them from their owners and they accepted with open hearts thanks to both of you….click on them to go to their flickr album and enjoy more shots…

Date:22/6/2005

~Flickr~

Iam really sad because flickr was blocked in the UAE I don’t understand people they always go to the extreme although our religion teaches us to be moderate. Islam teaches us to use things in a good way but who listens. I had an account but never posted any pictures yet. I did visit lots of other flickr links and enjoyed lots of beautiful pictures. Now because of those what should I call them? Should I curse them or just pray for them? I don’t know ok still prayer is better Allah yehdehom inshallah. Now that’s a punishment and I wish they learn a lesson although I feel it’s unfair for those who were using flickr decently. I wished those Emirate flickr members who misused flickr were blocked by Etisalat or even punished personally. I would feel better because justice would have been done instead of making others pay for their crime yes …THEIR CRIME they ruined the Moslem, Arab and UAE image with their ugly deed. Really this is a message to all those sick people out there stop destroying all the beautiful things around us just F**k off let others live in peace (sorry for using such a bad word but Iam so pissed of I hate injustice) Just letting out the blazing heat inside me I really feel for all you decent flickr members but I can’t do anything I have never felt so weak in my life…. Still inshallah something will be done….This is such a bad day I woke up and found all my favourite flickr links blocked…. Like this Anyone knows what can be done let us know…

Date:6/6/2005

~Sorry smokers~

I hate smokers sorry I don’t hate you in particular I mean I hate your smell to be precise…There is a great move going around for banning smoking in public places here in the UAE and Iam very happy about it…Dubai is preparing to ban smoking in its shopping malls and many offices are doing that too. Iam also taking part in this through my site I know I don’t get lots of visitors but even if one smoker changes his mind I will have done wonders thanks to dreamer 7 he made me see that a site has to be for a good cause thanks bro…

I once took a course in computers and there was this male teacher who was a flirt and a heavy smoker yes he stinks. When he leaves the room the girls would go offfff he is a stinker and he still wants to flirt yuck him that’s their words….Now smokers you don’t want to be in such a situation…Of course not…. ok so this is what you should do…its never too late to start anything.. Don’t say you can’t with a little determination you can stop smoking so try…..

Before I go special thanks to Uaeyah and Sara for motivating me to update thanks girls I love you emwa….I also came across two new sites Herpearls and Bentqatar give them a visit you won’t regret it… Makki please stop neglecting your site promise us something new as soon as possible ok we are waiting … Saleh You are great I read about you everywhere lately I saw a full interview with you in an Arabic magazine called Arrajul Alyaum(those who don’t know Arabic the magazine’s name means "The man of today"). Uaeadorable yallah update needed. Dhabyani with his outstanding topic and shots and Taintlessness with his artistic writing have updated take a look.Lastly please guys give Jelly a visit he deserves motivation and encouragement from us he’s doing a great job compared to his age. With our support remember this little guy will grow day by day into a responsible individual don’t let him down...

Date:18/2/2005

~Why men why?~

I'm just wondering how and why a husband dumps his wife of more than 20 year just like that. I wasn't feeling well for the past couple of days so I went to this private clinic. While  I sat waiting to be called a lady came and sat next to me she knocked my hand accidentally I pulled back and said sorry she said sorry too. A few minutes later she asked, Are you a local? I said yes. She stayed silent for a couple of minutes then started talking again she told me she is looking for a job as her husband dumped her for another woman after 29 years of marriage.

Now whether what she is saying is just a way to make people sympathize with her is one thing and if her husband really abandoned her for another woman is a completely different thing. Actually the second reason is what made me write this post. Imagine staying as a couple for 29 years sharing everything even the same bed and ops! just like this everything evaporates after such a long time people are strange really strange.

when I say this I'm not against a man marrying another woman I think its better to be separated than living together when there is no love or respect in the relationship, but what made me surprised is how inhuman some people can be. Ok he left her well and good but stops supporting her financially is a cruel thing. Ok not for the woman's sake but for the sake of his own flesh and blood his kids' poor guy no sense of responsibility at all.

To make the situation worse he works with sheikh x and we all know how generous sheikhs are this means he gets good money. He could just give his family a piece of a bone to gnaw on I just wonder how selfish some people can be. Anyway I have been thinking of this poor woman and what should a woman do in such a situation, how can she prevent and protect herself from such despotism in future. Your contribution will be greatly appreciated especially guys you could tell us how and why do men ditch their wives after so many  years of marriage?

To my dearest friend some more reading assignment for you.Your opinion is required I will try sleeping early today and I hope you are enjoying your stay in your little secret garden.

Date:13/1/2005

~A site to share~

Guys! while browsing the net I found this wonderful site. Maybe some of you have seen it but I am sure they are some who are like me and will see it for the first time.Aha so what's it all about I won't tell you just kidding ok this is the site. No first read on *wink*

On the site's home page go down to the right you will see radioislam click and ops! you will arrive to the page I am taking about. In the middle column there is a title "Desert reflection"  listen to the tapes. I have a feeling many of you will love the dairy especially those who have experienced culture clashes. well I mean you will feel like you are the one doing the talking NO NO its my feelings but each person has his/her own perception.

I love reading this kind of stuff it reminded me of these two books Mother without a mask   (about  two sheikhs from Abu Dhabi) and Memoirs of an Arabian Princess from Zanzibar (about an Omani princess) very interesting. If you are readers you will know what I mean books that make you travel away alone to a different planet, the type you can't stop reading until you reach the end  only then you realize wake up! you are back on mother earth.

I haven't gone through everything on the site except the "Muslim beat link" and of course the part I mention above "Desert reflection" 

After doing your reading homework here is the  site address http://soundvision.com now  just  follow the instructions above.

I love this site it's really rich in stuff I hope you enjoy surfing  just let me know your opinion ok...

P.S

I heard about geisha stories of Japan and I wanted to start with "The  tale of genji" Has anyone read the book if you have tell me is it worth it ok?

Date:1/1/2005

~Happy New Year~

It’s so strange wasn’t it 2004 yesterday? God gracious time can fly. I have a peaceful feeling that this year will be better then last year. I wish we never experience such bad things ever again. I won’t name them because each incident is more painful then the other. So weird that even the year ended with a human crises which shook me intensely. I am already suffering from a kind of phobia from this issue inshallah I get over it.

I don’t know if what I am going to say will make sense but I will say it anyway. We Moslem believe that some crises are due to our own sins or sometimes as a test of faith from God or just a warning which tells us check your deeds. I don’t know which one is the correct answer God knows better. I feel like I can’t express myself well let’s all forget the past and hope for a better tomorrow.

I couldn’t help but  dedicate this card to everyone who visits my page. Happy new year to you all remember our religion teaches us to always have faith in God. So let’s all pray that the coming years are filled with roses Amen.

Bye bye yesterday the chapter has been closed.Welcome tomorrow with all the best for us.

P.S  congrates to Taintlessness he made a great surprise for his fans check his new site.

Date:29/11/2004 

 ~Special thanks~  

Really guys Iam not an artist but I struggled to make this card as a tribute to all of you emwas..

Today I found something new  on Romanciat and  thought of sharing it with you mobile freaks out there check it you might like it.

Mmmmmmm what else yeah when I read Dhabyani's current topic it reminded  me of my life when I was little I just don't know whether it's the way my parents brought me up or it's an individual thing. I never felt different or special although I was different and special yeah it isn't blowing my trumpet but yeah we had a far better life than others we had a car but we walked with others to school. Only at times we were forced to go by car. We had tuition teachers we had many extra privileges but I swear I never felt special I was happy being a part of everyone. (don't they say ama bine3mat rabika fa7adeth)

Loooool that was funny because I remember being a home maker I mean yeah we had maids and my dad doesn't allow us to do anything, but I did stuff at home. one day I clean the whole kitchen the next day I arrange my parents bedroom. Then I sweep the yard well I know it wasn't compulsory but still I used to do stuff. I wonder if others were in my place would they do the same? or rot sitting on their bums. 

Anyway like dhabyani said,

"Money can enhance a person's happiness, but not buy it.
When people have money, they possess temporary happiness because money comes and goes.. There are other measures of wealth, other than materialistic scales, we are rich with our religion, family, health, friends and knowledge. Money isn't everything in life.. it's priceless to be surrounded by a loving family.. being a part of a strong united nation. Life is a journey where happiness is not a commodity one can purchase"

Whispers to these special people:

Sara D'amore:Come back soon we will miss you loads    

Uaeadorable:Update and where is your promise to me looooool still curiosity killed the cat right?

Romanciat:I liked the mobile stuff...

Lammtara:Weinak update

Banoota: Thanks for http://www.flickr.com

Dhabyani: All in all your site rocks let the sick ones die *wink*

Majed: I love your site...

Makki: Weinak you disappeared from Eid yallah update Makki

Hawkuae:Mashallah aren't  you talented guys? I wish I had half your talent Allah ybarek wayzeed inshallah.

Elmasi:Yeah its a man's world all in all your site rocks bro.

Taintlessness: A talented poet you are da best bro.

 

 

 Date:8/10/2004

~Just The Beginning~

I don't know how or what to write but I will try. We all know the first time  doers are always cranky so forgive me. I tried to make my page as interactive as possible because I believe in this way it will be more fun for everyone to take part freely. Ok this part will be a place where I will talk and talk and talk (or write..) and bore you every now and then just expressing myself. I didn't forget you all I made a similar page called "shout out" for you all to blab along with me aren't I sweet.

In this place you just get a nick and start blabbing. Guess what you get comments on your talk. Ok ok what I mean is you write whatever you want (ideas, fact, experience etc). and send it to me on my email. On the other hand people who visit and read what you have written give you feedback on your topic and so on. Don't forget I also have a comment part here and would love to read your feedback.

 

   

~ About the links ~

What is Shout Out about?

This will be a place for my visitors to express themselves just like my talk in this page. Guess what  you will  have comments from others too. This place is generally  for those who do not have a personal page but all are welcomed to take part. Just send me your topic and I will place it in the shout out section.

 

What is Beauty Zone about?    

It's a place for ladies. I will try to share some beauty tips. It's not like Iam an expert but I read lots of information on beauty. Ladies Iam sure you know what I mean we are always into beauty therapy right? As  nowadays we are always in a hurry my articles will be right to the point. If others want to share anything send it and I will post it in the section deal?

 

 What is Monthly Quotes about?

This is a place where we can have  some of our favorite quotes posted. Then others can comment on whether they agree or disagree with the quote and why? Again just send me your quote and it will be displayed for a whole month its all yours I start ok?

        

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